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Jan 17Liked by Sari Botton, Memoir Land, Kerra Bolton

This is such an amazing piece...I wish it could be something everyone has to read!!! I cried. Your descriptions are beautiful and kept me paying attention the whole way through. I especially like the talking to friends and how open they were about other things but not swimming and then the image "like oyster shells, their stories pry open.." I love that the water spirits chose you to tell the stories. Keep telling them!

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Thank you. This will be a chapter in my memoir "Water in My Bones" about my quest at 50 years old to learn to swim, dive, and map sunken slave ships. I am happy the piece resonated with you. It's the encouragement I need to keep writing.

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Jan 17Liked by Sari Botton, Kerra Bolton

Yes keep writing please!

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Thank you! It's also an addiction. (LOL)

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Great, so this is part of a bigger work. Onward!

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Thank you!

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Jan 25Liked by Kerra Bolton, Sari Botton

Wow, epigenetics and the slave trade. I love essays where I learn something, and that was the case with yours. Tough historical material interweaved with the personal makes for such a worthwhile read. Thank you for sharing.

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Thank you! It’s a delicate task to weave in the historical details without losing the reader.

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Jan 17Liked by Sari Botton, Memoir Land, Kerra Bolton

Beautiful. I love the weaving of spirits with history and your reclaiming of your ancestors and your fearlessness in the water.

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Thank you! I appreciate your comments. I have learned to acknowledge my fear in the water. It’s still present and I try anyway.

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Jan 17Liked by Sari Botton, Kerra Bolton

Powerful writing. I could feel/hear the Spirits talking to you.

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Thank you. They are always with me.

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Jan 22Liked by Sari Botton, Kerra Bolton

The things we don't know, have failed to know, we need to know. A powerful, lyrical, beautifully constructed education. Thank you.

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Thank you for reading. I am glad it resonated with you.

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Jan 18Liked by Sari Botton, Kerra Bolton

Great piece! I've spent lots of time in Akumal over the decades and I've had some eye opening snorkeling experiences. A whole world down there. I love your ancestral healing exploration as well. We all could benefit from this shadow work. Sharing this with a friend who frequents the Akumal coast and is a diver. Keep talking to the water spirits. I'm in the Mexican desert now, I'm not sure what the cactus are saying but I'm listening? Best to you.

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Thank you! I have snorkeled and am actually swimming now. Akumal is a very healing place. I LOVE that you're in the Mexican desert. The cactus probably have lots of stories. My neighbor is a shaman who focuses on plant-based healing and experiences. He makes the best carrot curry soup. Please let me know if or when you return to Akumal.

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Jan 18Liked by Kerra Bolton, Sari Botton

for sure. I live a couple blocks away from the Sea of Cortez but it's not swimming friendly. Miss the Caribe but I'm here doing other stuff. Rescuing dogs and pulling ticks. I'm a retired chef and carrot curry soup sounds amazing. Not a ton of interesting produce on the west side interior, but it's temporary (2.5 years later...) will def keep you on my radar. :-) I'm happy you're swimming! That's the best. I love how it sounds under there.

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Oct 31Liked by Sari Botton, Kerra Bolton

Your writing moves me deeply. Thank you and your ancestors for your courage, beauty of spirit, and for the strength in your dedication to life and truth. Feeling gratefully humbled by you and your journey. I look forward to your book.

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Thank you, Eliza. I woke up to your message this morning. Thank you for reminding me that our stories matter.

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Sep 17Liked by Sari Botton, Kerra Bolton

So beautiful. It did that thing writing can do – transported me for a few minutes, and told me a story I’m glad I now know

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Mar 13Liked by Sari Botton, Kerra Bolton

Love this as it moves from your head in a cooking pot to the real terrors of the deep. Your ancestors need the rest of this story!! So do your readers!!

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Yes, I am looking for a publisher.

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Feb 14Liked by Sari Botton, Kerra Bolton

This essay is beautiful and compelling. Thank you Kerra!

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Thank you for reading it! I am working on an earlier chapter.

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Feb 16Liked by Sari Botton, Kerra Bolton

I look forward to reading it!

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Jan 24Liked by Sari Botton, Kerra Bolton

Kerra, I am speechless.

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Ana, wow. Thank you. As writers, we often create in isolation. I constantly question whether I am “good enough “ to even submit my work for publication. I appreciate the encouragement.

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Jan 24Liked by Sari Botton, Kerra Bolton

Don´t stop Lightning Bolton!!!!

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Hahaha! Thank you.

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Jan 24Liked by Kerra Bolton, Sari Botton

Remember when we were kids and we'd ask each other those crazy questions, like "How would you like to die?" I used to say, drowning, because it seemed romantic, or at least that's how it looked on TV. As I grew older, I'd imagine death by suffocation, and thought of the best but boring way, in your sleep, but after your essay, you're making it sound good again. Recently, I finished The Wager by David Grann, and he mentioned how a group of indigenous people from South America, who were captured by the Spanish, tried to revolt while at sea, and were successful, but then they were captured again. They, too, decided it was better to jump overboard than suffer the fate of being ill-treated and enslaved. Thank you, Kerra, for your thought-provoking, insightful, and beautiful words. xo

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Jan 24·edited Jan 24Author

Thank you for your gorgeous, slightly heart breaking, and thoughtful response.

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Jan 17Liked by Sari Botton, Kerra Bolton

Beautiful, powerful work.

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Thank you!

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Jan 17Liked by Kerra Bolton, Sari Botton

This is deeply moving and emotionally powerful. Also edifying. I will need to read it again, so that I won’t forget the details. Thank you.

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Thank you! I am glad it resonated with you.

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Jan 17Liked by Sari Botton

Whenever I listen to your stories, I am transported. To the pot where you bravely dunk your face and blow bubbles, to the open seas where enslaved people leap to their freedom even in death, to the swimming pools where squirmy white kids learn to swim and have no idea what lies beneath the surface. I deeply appreciate you.

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Jan 29Liked by Kerra Bolton

Thank you for sharing your writings from the edge of humanities fragility and diving deeply into historical trauma. I think there is power in naming the truth that sets' all of us free.

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There is strength in vulnerability when combined with truth. I am glad it resonated with you.

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