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Apr 24Liked by Sari Botton, MUTHR, FCKD

Lived off Dojo for years. And Mogador. It kind of breaks my heart that the city/neighborhood is so unaffordable for folks/kids. It was still a lot of fun being broke...

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Apr 24Liked by Sari Botton, MUTHR, FCKD

I'm a xennial ex-New Yorker, ahead of you in leaving but slightly behind in wisdom — the Yaffa Cafe mention and then maybe Joya? Song? at the end got me in the feels. This is lovely. (Also I hope it rains on the nurse that took your Republic noodles away every day, forever.)

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This was so awesome! My newsletter and podcast is about how gentrification has created experiences like yours and I love this so much and wish I’d not been a baby in 1986 so I could have lived some of this. Let me know if you’d be interested in coming on my podcast to talk about this!

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Apr 24Liked by Sari Botton, MUTHR, FCKD

Great piece! Ah Dojo, my first -ever lunch in New York (thanks to you!). Loved taking this tasty trip down memory lane with you and peeping your pic from your Parson days.

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Apr 24Liked by Sari Botton, MUTHR, FCKD

For an old school New Yorker this piece was golden. I couldn't begin to tell you how many days and nights (especially nights) I spent in all the restaurants you mentioned. Thank you for the memories and the beautiful memoir.

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Apr 26Liked by Sari Botton, MUTHR, FCKD

This piece made me so happy!! I miss Republic! And Dojo. I still live in GV & cherish that spots that remain.

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I coat checked at that restaurant too! I've always wanted to know the name. I remember piles of fur coats on the basement floor! And I did get to coat check Paul Newman's coat! Great piece Viv!

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Apr 25Liked by Sari Botton, MUTHR, FCKD

Head of the line at Odeon 1990. Maybe I cooked you steak frites? Dojo go to for years. Republic too. Memory lane.

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Apr 24Liked by Sari Botton, MUTHR, FCKD

Lovely. Did you ever drink the plum wine at Do Jo?

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I want a second helping of this piece. I was living a parallel life in LA, starving and striving with my cool art friends.

I would love to read more about you 1980s NYC experiences.

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Apr 24Liked by Sari Botton, MUTHR, FCKD

I'm flashing back. I worked near Odeon at a short - lived rib place called Rachel's. It was modeled after Tony Roma's and I lied about working there to get the job slinging racks and martinis to Wall Street creeps). I couldn't afford Odeon but finally went there a year later on a date. I got a "lobster" entree which had a half lobster shell arranged on it with a few wisps of green. When you lifted off the shell there was five bites of lamely spiced lobster meat in butter in the center of the plate. I ordered dessert, needless to say! I was a coatcheck girl at an Irish Pub in the 50s for a few months--what a nightmare; I waited tables on the Upper West Side a few years later but there were no steep stairs in that place...Thanks for the memories.

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Apr 24Liked by Sari Botton, MUTHR, FCKD

Ooooh! Sting, Buscemi, and the skinny on NYC cuisine! I am really looking forward to the restaurant experience when I visit for the first time next spring.

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Apr 29Liked by Sari Botton

Wonderful writing. Really took me back.

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