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Jodi Sh. Doff's avatar

Lived off Dojo for years. And Mogador. It kind of breaks my heart that the city/neighborhood is so unaffordable for folks/kids. It was still a lot of fun being broke...

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Sari Botton's avatar

I feel the same way. <3

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Kathryn Kellinger's avatar

Being young and broke was absolutely glorious.

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MUTHR, FCKD's avatar

Me, too! I still go to Mogador ALL THE TIME. I will never break up with their Country Breakfast.

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Kristen Hawley's avatar

I'm a xennial ex-New Yorker, ahead of you in leaving but slightly behind in wisdom — the Yaffa Cafe mention and then maybe Joya? Song? at the end got me in the feels. This is lovely. (Also I hope it rains on the nurse that took your Republic noodles away every day, forever.)

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Sari Botton's avatar

<3

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MUTHR, FCKD's avatar

Ding! Ding! Ding! And thank you!

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Kristen Jeffers, MPA ✊🏽🌈's avatar

This was so awesome! My newsletter and podcast is about how gentrification has created experiences like yours and I love this so much and wish I’d not been a baby in 1986 so I could have lived some of this. Let me know if you’d be interested in coming on my podcast to talk about this!

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MUTHR, FCKD's avatar

I'm down—thank you!

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Kenneth's avatar

Great piece! Ah Dojo, my first -ever lunch in New York (thanks to you!). Loved taking this tasty trip down memory lane with you and peeping your pic from your Parson days.

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MUTHR, FCKD's avatar

I love you forever

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Michael A. Gonzales's avatar

For an old school New Yorker this piece was golden. I couldn't begin to tell you how many days and nights (especially nights) I spent in all the restaurants you mentioned. Thank you for the memories and the beautiful memoir.

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MUTHR, FCKD's avatar

Thank you so very much!

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Erin Khar's avatar

This piece made me so happy!! I miss Republic! And Dojo. I still live in GV & cherish that spots that remain.

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MUTHR, FCKD's avatar

As one should! What are your faves?

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Erin Khar's avatar

Oh gosh, in no particular order… Cafe Mogador, The Knickerbocker (which was reserved for eating at with parents), Bagel Bob’s, Waverly Diner, B&H, Veselka….

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MUTHR, FCKD's avatar

I still eat at Mogador all the time! That Country Breakfast is a constant!

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Nina Roberts's avatar

I coat checked at that restaurant too! I've always wanted to know the name. I remember piles of fur coats on the basement floor! And I did get to coat check Paul Newman's coat! Great piece Viv!

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MUTHR, FCKD's avatar

Thank you thank you! I think you helped me get that gig! I can't remember the name of that restaurant for the life of me. The best celeb I got there was Chuck Barris from The Gong Show so you win!

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Nina Roberts's avatar

That's hilarious, I loved The Gong Show.

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Josh Liveright's avatar

Head of the line at Odeon 1990. Maybe I cooked you steak frites? Dojo go to for years. Republic too. Memory lane.

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MUTHR, FCKD's avatar

Too funny! I couldn't swing the steak back then—would've loved that! So many great spots gone. Where do you like to eat now?

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Josh Liveright's avatar

You could have asked one of the cokeheads at the bar to buy you a steak. I’m in the Catskills now but some faves - saraghina in Brooklyn, the ramen craze - various joints, flor de mayo, mermaid inn when oysters were a dolla, hand pulled noodles in Harlem, ROKC in Washington Heights, halal carts…

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MUTHR, FCKD's avatar

LMAO those cokeheads! Also those dollar Mermaid Inn oysters were the BEST

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Anita's avatar

Lovely. Did you ever drink the plum wine at Do Jo?

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MUTHR, FCKD's avatar

Oh hell yes. When I could afford it.

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Michele Miles Gardiner's avatar

I want a second helping of this piece. I was living a parallel life in LA, starving and striving with my cool art friends.

I would love to read more about you 1980s NYC experiences.

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MUTHR, FCKD's avatar

Thanks so very much!

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Jennifer Silva Redmond's avatar

I'm flashing back. I worked near Odeon at a short - lived rib place called Rachel's. It was modeled after Tony Roma's and I lied about working there to get the job slinging racks and martinis to Wall Street creeps). I couldn't afford Odeon but finally went there a year later on a date. I got a "lobster" entree which had a half lobster shell arranged on it with a few wisps of green. When you lifted off the shell there was five bites of lamely spiced lobster meat in butter in the center of the plate. I ordered dessert, needless to say! I was a coatcheck girl at an Irish Pub in the 50s for a few months--what a nightmare; I waited tables on the Upper West Side a few years later but there were no steep stairs in that place...Thanks for the memories.

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MUTHR, FCKD's avatar

Haha...you're welcome. Thanks so much for reading!

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Not The Enemy's avatar

Ooooh! Sting, Buscemi, and the skinny on NYC cuisine! I am really looking forward to the restaurant experience when I visit for the first time next spring.

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MUTHR, FCKD's avatar

You'll dig it.

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Janet Funk's avatar

Wonderful writing. Really took me back.

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