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Amazing excerpt — I felt it in my chest. Thank you for sharing!

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This is so incredibly beautiful. I wish I could have worn mourning clothes when my mom and sister passed so people would have recognized that I was not in my right mind. What a gorgeous and necessary tradition.

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I felt this deeply. Having lost my mom in Nov. 2022, I wish mourning was recognized in my community. One of the assistant principals at the school where I worked lost her mom around the same time. On Mother’s Day the following year, our first without our mothers, this coworker wrote me a note telling me she understood my pain and validated this difficult time. I, too, felt seen and loved. Thank you for this article. It was much needed.

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Beautiful. Thank you.

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Mar 13Liked by Sari Botton

Very beautiful and touching piece on grief and community. Also a good reminder to say yes, and yes do we need to be reminded of mourning rituals. Thank you!

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Beautiful.

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Mar 13Liked by Sari Botton

Lovely❤️

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Stunning work.

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Lovely. Thought provoking. Consoling. Thank you.

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