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Loved this interview Heather. Added The Observable Universe to my to-read list, sounds fascinating. Will book club later my review Sari :)

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:)

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"I need the process of writing, of connecting my head to my hand to a pen, to see what I'm feeling, and I love that writing allows me to do this."

Amen. You are RIGHT on my wavelength! Thanks for the interesting interview.

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Same!

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Yes! That's the part that reached out and grabbed me the most, but the whole piece was compelling to me.

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Loved this advice on listening to yourself, Heather. Love the whole interview. You outlining the timeline of the work on this book is helpful, as I think about how it feels like work on mine is taking forever.

The Observable Universe has joined my reading list. What an intriguing weave.

Thank you, Heather and Sari.

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Great interview! I’m very interested in reading this book now. I lost both my parents during the Covid pandemic and, while I have accepted it, the loss among so much loss and upheaval really made dealing with it extremely difficult.

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<3

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Fascinating! Another author to follow and another book to buy and read.

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Sep 10Liked by Sari Botton

I read this book early in the summer after seeing/listening to McCalden on a panel at the LA Fest of Books. As a person who is also writing about grief, (which comes out in fragments for me too), I felt and feel comforted by her gorgeous work. This book is smart in ways both emotionally and intellectually, and there's a tenderness to it that creates another texture to the narrative. I took my time reading it, which the text allows for being that it's in fragments reminiscent of Mary Robison's Why Did I Ever (longer word counts per section, though). This slow reading made the work feel more like a companion to my summer thinking and writing.

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Great to hear!

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Oh, I have to read your book, now, after reading this lovely questionnaire (thanks Sari!). I am struggling with grieving my father, because it's so complicated, it comes in fragments. I'm so sorry about your parents - I lost my beloved Uncle Greg around the same time, to the same thing. He was such a wonderful human being, and he influences me even now. Thank you, Heather, for this glimpse at your process, and for being so vulnerable. 🖤

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