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Jen Wilde's avatar

Another late-diagnosed autistic writer here! 👋🏻 I relate so much to everything about this. I’m so glad more of us are sharing our stories with the world. Adding your book to my TBR!

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Sari Botton's avatar

I’m being tested on Tuesday!

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Jen Wilde's avatar

Sending love for the pre-test nerves! Hope it brings clarity for you

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Marian Schembari's avatar

We are legion!

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Jackie Carpenter's avatar

So funny and heartening and warm-making to find yourself mirrored. Makes me feel less, well, wrong. Your book now top of my to-read list. Thank you Marion. And thank you Memoirland...

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Judy Davidson's avatar

Thanks for sharing about your new book. It was of interest to me on several fronts--you are living in Portland, Oregon (my hometown), you are writing about autism (I have two autistic nephews and I am always looking for clues to understand how they might be seeing the world), and it's a hybrid memoir (I am writing memoir and interested in this form of memoir). I will be searching out your book through my local library--and asking them to purchase if they haven't. Again, thanks for sharing.

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Marian Schembari's avatar

You are the best Judy! I will also say there are two chapters in my book set at my college -- DAVIDSON!! Thank you so much for requesting it at the library, that makes a huge difference.

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Judy Davidson's avatar

Davidson College?! OMGosh...I do have Davidson ancestors related to those Davidsons. I've heard very good things about that school and they are a leader in the reparations movement. I definitely need to read your book.

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Judy Davidson's avatar

I just went into my local library catalog to request the book and learned that the library is already in the process of acquiring it and there are 8 holds on it ahead of me!! You are doing well in Lowell, Mass.

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Marian Schembari's avatar

Oh I love hearing that, thank you! I'm nearby right now, doing my next tour stop at Harvard Bookstore tomorrow night.

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Bette's avatar

Wow! Excited to read your book! Just ordered, but also requested my library purchase -- best way to get it on the shelf for others. What I most look forward to hearing is, how did a diagnosis change you -- or, from your title, "made you whole." What does knowing you're autistic actually do for your day-to-day life?

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Marian Schembari's avatar

Oh thank you so much Bette, especially for the library request. Our libraries are everything. I hope you enjoy the book!

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Laura Howe's avatar

Hi Marian!! I'm so excited for your book and so proud of you!! We "talked" back in the good ol' days of Twitter (👋🏻 I'm @lamiki there still). I'm so so so so happy for you!!! Thank you for sharing your journey!!

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Marian Schembari's avatar

Omg Laura HIIIII!!! Love seeing you here.

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FridaCat's avatar

I am so excited about the book and the memoir. Having several women in my life who are neurodivergent, and have been misdiagnosed, misjudged, and maltreated, I am grateful that Marian is telling her story of life with autism.

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Marian Schembari's avatar

Ahhh, this makes me so happy Amy thank you thank you <3

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FridaCat's avatar

I live in Portland; maybe we will cross paths at some point. Best wishes

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Adrienne Hand's avatar

I love this! So honest and helpful and inspiring. Thank you!

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Marian Schembari's avatar

Thank YOU!

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